The Last couple of weeks, there have been a sudden surge of feministic
videos, articles blogs and what not. Well, I don’t blame the feminists given
the increase in the rape count in India. I ,personally, do not defend the
groping in buses, intentional and inappropriate
touching or weird looks given persistently or calling out bad names. I am totally
against it. But , I feel they are going too far defending the women.
Here is
why:
1. Men
will stop hitting ( looking sense) at women the day the converse is ready to happen. Its hormones dammit. It is like you are depriving men of one thing
they love to do. When a handsome guy passes by a group of girls( women), there is
some silence acknowledging his looks. Well, women are the first to notice a guy
who wears a sleeveless. Shouldn’t
manners be mutual eh?
2. NOT
ALL Men hit ( the real sense) you intentionally while you buy the pop corn! Some apologise.Still
you call them a pervert. And if you do it to us , you curl your hair, try to
act innocent and tell us a sorry. Do we call you a pervert, then?. We don’t dramatize
like you do.
3. What
is it that women want from all men? To
take away that one joy we get by looking at beautiful women. For some, men
women are just a beautiful piece of art which they admire .Not all see you as a
sex object .Get over it.
4. Ok.
Fine. Consider it done . That men restrains themselves from hitting (looking or trying sense) on women
and turn into a monk with no emotions. But dare you women; don’t ask for that
monk to rise up again when you need a surprise rose on your wedding
anniversary or compliment you after marriage when you ask about your dress.
5. YES.
We sympathize with you regarding your depravation of jobs all these years. We agree,
you are a smarter gender. That doesn’t mean you can take advantage of the situation
and defame innocent men too!
6. A
guy tries to offer you a seat; you don’t thank him, but just ridicule his
decision to offer it in the first place.
7. It’s
just a co-incidence of a guy looking at you and you not liking him at the same
time that makes you decide he is a pervert. It’s not only where he looks also. Just a few seconds. That’s all. The case is
different if you like him, though.
The
overall conclusion is this : IF you want to apply rules ,let it be fair. Don’t
be partial.