Yes, i wear a sleeveless inside my shirt , so what?

The Last couple of weeks, there have been a sudden surge of   feministic videos, articles blogs and what not. Well, I don’t blame the feminists given the increase in the rape count in India. I ,personally, do not defend the groping in buses, intentional and  inappropriate touching or weird looks given persistently or calling out bad names. I am totally against it. But , I feel they are going too far defending the women. 

Here is why:

1.       Men will stop hitting ( looking sense) at women the day the converse is ready to happen.  Its hormones dammit.  It is like you are depriving men of one thing they love to do. When a handsome guy passes by a group of girls( women), there is some silence acknowledging his looks. Well, women are the first to notice a guy who wears a sleeveless.  Shouldn’t manners be mutual eh?

2.       NOT ALL Men hit ( the real sense)  you intentionally while you buy the pop corn! Some apologise.Still you call them a pervert. And if you do it to us , you curl your hair, try to act innocent and tell us a sorry. Do we call you a pervert, then?. We don’t dramatize like you do.

3.       What is it that women want from all men?  To take away that one joy we get by looking at beautiful women. For some, men women are just a beautiful piece of art which they admire .Not all see you as a sex object .Get over it.  

4.       Ok. Fine. Consider it done . That men restrains themselves from hitting (looking or trying sense) on women and turn into a monk with no emotions. But dare you women; don’t ask for that monk to rise up again when you need a surprise rose on your wedding anniversary or compliment you after marriage when you ask about your dress.

5.       YES. We sympathize with you regarding your depravation of jobs all these years. We agree, you are a smarter gender. That doesn’t mean you can take advantage of the situation and defame innocent men too! 

6.       A guy tries to offer you a seat; you don’t thank him, but just ridicule his decision to offer it in the first place.

7.       It’s just a co-incidence of a guy looking at you and you not liking him at the same time that makes you decide he is a pervert. It’s not only where he looks also.  Just a few seconds. That’s all. The case is different if you like him, though.

      The overall conclusion is this : IF you want to apply rules ,let it be fair. Don’t be partial.